Add Terraform AWS infrastructure and enhanced CI/CD pipeline (FRE-4574)

- Terraform modules: VPC, ECS Fargate, RDS PostgreSQL, ElastiCache Redis, S3, Secrets Manager, CloudWatch
- Multi-environment support: staging and production configs
- ECS auto-scaling: CPU-based scaling with configurable min/max
- CI/CD: pnpm caching, Docker Buildx, Trivy security scanning, Terraform plan on PR
- Deploy: ECS service updates with automatic rollback on health check failure
- Backup: automated RDS snapshots, S3 versioning, ElastiCache snapshots
- Monitoring: CloudWatch dashboards, CPU/memory/5xx alarms
- Rollback script for manual service rollback
- Infrastructure documentation with architecture overview

infra/.gitignore

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+.terraform/
+*.tfstate
+*.tfstate.backup
+*.tfvars
+.terraform.lock.hcl
+override.tf
+override.tf.json
+*_override.tf
+*_override.tf.json